Hey guys! I saw this photo on Instagram of this gorgeous bride and her groom. There are millions of pics on social media of blissfully married couples right?
If your a true believer in LOVE, then you know everyone always wants to know the SECRET to finding the one and staying in love forever.
After 14 years of being happily married to my best friend, I can honestly say that the secret lies deep within your season of Singleness! Yup! It was the preparations that I made when I was single, that paid off NOW in my marriage. The years I spent in purification and preparation were well worth waiting to be found by my King💍
I share my secrets, my wisdom and my life changing experiences with you in my new course “Wife To Be”-a prep course for Single women who desire to be married someday and want to learn how to become a Godly wife. You ready?
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So out of the blue your hit with a sudden disaster, crisis or disease. Unexpected PAUSES in life can paralyze you without warning. At some point in all of our lives, these pauses, seemingly interruptions, will come! If you are experiencing something right now that has taken you by surprise, I want to watch this video. Though you may feel like the bottom has dropped out, all is not lost. 'Selah' means to PAUSE and think deeply. As you encounter this SELAH moment in your life today, take a moment to pray and watch this encouraging message.
Ever walk into your bedroom or bathroom and scream? Looking around in disbelief at all the STUFF that has accumulated in your space, it can leave you both confused and frustrated. Naturally I’m Spring cleaning, just like many of you and the amount of stuff I have in my home from winter, is downright frightening!! I don’t know where all this stuff came from but more importantly....HOW do I get rid of it?
Don’t panic. It’s naturally to feel like decluttering will be a long and boring process, but it really doesn’t have to be. I have found some quick and EFFECTIVE ways to declutter and see my floors again.🙈. I’m exited to share these strategies with you today. Watch this quick video to get you started on your journey to becoming more ORGANIZED!!! Step by step action plans can be found in my new Book “My Organized Life”-available now on Amazon.com grab your copy this weekend.
Ok ok now click the video and let’s get cleaning!
I’m super excited about Spring!!! I live on the East coast where it’s always super cold and snowy. Although I love snow, it’s kind of hard to build in it. So the new season (even though it still snows here in spring 😳) brings with it the new opportunities to Build. I’m a D.I.Y. Girl at heart, so almost every weekend, I’m at my local Home Depot and craft store-putting my creativity to WORK.
As much as I enjoy building and creating things for my home, I also enjoy building things for God to use. It’s messy, I make mistakes, I fail often but guess what? It’s all a part of the process. Stay authentic to your process when your building! I’ll share the “HOW” in this video, click it!
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I bet you think God wants 545 things from you today! I used to think that God always wanted SO much from me, so I would run from that pressure🤦🏽♀️. I had no idea, until I gave my heart to God, that the main thing He wanted from me was very simple-a connection!
Yes, God always wants to be CONNECTED to you! The scriptures tell us that God will always be with us, so that means we are the ones who disconnect from God. Life happens and when it does, we become distracted and distant from God. I’ve been there and if you are there NOW, I’ve got a great way for you to reconnect with God today. Watch this video!
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It’s the moment where you want to find a body sized hole and crawl in it. You failed! Yup, somehow someway you blew it and you feel completely horrible about it. If it’s a public failure, there’s a hint of embarrassment attached to it and that makes it sting even worse. Listen!!!! We all fail.
Even when I am doing my best at something, working hard, being consistent etc...there’s still room for failure. I used to SIT in my failures and wait until the pain or embarrassment resisted, but praise be to God for revelation!! You don’t have to STAY down because you got knocked down. God is the God of the COMEBACKS ‼️‼️‼️‼️
Its time for you to come back and I can’t wait to show you HOW to do it. Check this video and suit up for the biggest comeback you’ll ever make.
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At some point in life, you mature and start to reflect on your life. You question WHY you make the choices you do or why you love the person your with. the answer to fulfillment in life comes from finding your God given purpose!! purpose may be a lot easier to discover than you think. Purpose is what drives us, what focuses us and ultimately determines our success in life. Need help discovering your purpose? grab a snack and watch this video I did LIVE about how I found my PURPOSE!
I hope you have enjoyed this month’s Truths about LOVE. Love is beyond Valentine’s Day, especially for Married women. It’s not easy to walk in love, as a wife so I’m sure you appreciate having some help every now and again.
The Art of Love” was created to be a help to all Wives, no matter how short or long you’ve been married. Did you view this entire series? Just in case you missed it, I’m posting the link to all FIVE videos today. If you have viewed them already, feel free to re visit these teaching videos in your moments of frustration or doubt.
Remember, it’s easy to quit when things get hard, but a good wife stays committed! I pray that the Art of Love refreshes and encourages your heart to continue mastering love with your husband. Take a moment and SHARE this series with a friend you love.
Quick question? How long have YOU been married? I’d love to hear your marriage truths, share in the comments 💕
Every husband finds a way to blow it, make a mistake or upset you! Click the video to find out what to do when IT happens.
Love is such a wonderful journey! Like cooking a great meal involves fresh ingredients and proper cooking tools...Love is an art!! It requires 5 Intimate Truths that I feel every WIFE should know.
The Art of Love is a 5 part video series that will change the way you look at your husband. So grab a cup of coffee and take a listen. I’d love to hear what you think about this one-the art of Listening. Yes listening is a part of LOVE. When your ready, CLICK The video below
I’ve been happily married for 14 years now and the secret to staying together is....Mastering the Art of LOVE ❤️ . Love is a splendid thing and is as intricate and amazing as it’s creator. In fact the Bible says that God IS love.....
As a WIFE there are many secrets and joy that fill our hearts. We strive to become masters at cooking, cleaning, parenting, SHOPPING (my fav) and so much more. Today I want to encourage you to master the most important art in this masterpiece we call Marriage, and that is the Art of Love. I’ve created a 5 part series that’s right on time for Valentine’s Day💕💕
Elder Kay Starks
Scribe. Prophetess. Wife. Mother. Entrepreneur and Friend! I am completely in LOVE with God and using all the Gifts He has graciously given me, to serve the world.