Yes I have to admit that I'm a bit of an OVER ACHIEVER. I certainly didn't start out that way but once I tasted the sweet nectar of achievement...I was hooked! I love the feeling of accomplishing something, especially when initially I feel I can't do it. Hard work produces results and those results can feel so liberating!!
Today I want to chat with you about Maximizing your Mentorship by mastering the Art of Achievement!! We all know what it's like to fail, to miss, or to simply not try. I've lived in complacency a long time because of my fears and I know you have too. Once I realized (through the help of my Mentor) that I could beat fear and actually do some amazing things....I went for it!
A mentor should push you to Achieve! Most likely a mentor will do this by giving you small or large tasks to do. If you stay committed to completing the tasks given, you will start to love the taste of achievement. Reach for the goals you and your mentor have set together. Check out this video for more about Mastering the Art of Achievement and don't forget to SHARE it with your friends.
Mentorship can be so great! Just like any new relationship, a mentorship can start out very exciting! This week I'd like to share with you how to maximize your mentorship by mastering the art of Commitment. Being committed can seem like a no brainer in the beginning of your mentorship, after all, you have invested in getting help from this person so of course your going to be around.
However as time progresses, and life happens, it can become harder and harder to stay committed to the mentorship. Commitment or lack thereof can actually end a mentorship before it's time. Before you start a mentorship, take a moment to realistically determine how much time you can commit to this new relationship. Make sure your able to give one hundred percent so that you can reap all the benefits of being mentored.
Check this video below from my new series "Maximize Mentorship" and don't forget to subscribe to my channel, so you don't miss future videos.
I don't know about you but I love a NEW beginning!
We all go through seasons of our lives where the day to day routine can feel daunting. Change can seem ions away when you feel hopeless and overwhelmed. As you endeavor to reach goals from season to season, you may crave CHANGE but find it hard to reach. I remember my early years as a mom being so overwhelming and frustrating I wanted to pull out my hair! I was stuck changing diapers, losing sleep and struggling to keep my head above water.
Being stuck is a horrible feeling, but the good news is...there's always someone somewhere who can help you get unstuck! I was blessed to find some veteran moms who were willing to MENTOR me and what a huge change that brought to my mothering. They had taught me creative ways to get sleep, balance and actually enjoy the tireless tasks I had to do daily. Yes, mentorship was the help I desperately needed back then and it still works for me today.
Just like you I have dreams and one of them was to become a published AUTHOR. It seemed impossible, I wrote for years with no luck or recognition. I would start books and never finish. I was once again, stuck! Prayerfully I sought out a MENTOR and immediately, my creative juices started to flow. Mentorship has been my well kept secret until now!! It is the key to saving time, money and gaining success in every area of your life.
Stick around this month and I'll share with you FIVE ways I learned to maximize my Mentorships. Check out the first one in this video below, don't forget to leave a comment. I'd love to hear your thoughts about Mentorship and how it effects your life.
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Hey guys! I saw this photo on Instagram of this gorgeous bride and her groom. There are millions of pics on social media of blissfully married couples right?
If your a true believer in LOVE, then you know everyone always wants to know the SECRET to finding the one and staying in love forever.
After 14 years of being happily married to my best friend, I can honestly say that the secret lies deep within your season of Singleness! Yup! It was the preparations that I made when I was single, that paid off NOW in my marriage. The years I spent in purification and preparation were well worth waiting to be found by my King💍
I share my secrets, my wisdom and my life changing experiences with you in my new course “Wife To Be”-a prep course for Single women who desire to be married someday and want to learn how to become a Godly wife. You ready?
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So out of the blue your hit with a sudden disaster, crisis or disease. Unexpected PAUSES in life can paralyze you without warning. At some point in all of our lives, these pauses, seemingly interruptions, will come! If you are experiencing something right now that has taken you by surprise, I want to watch this video. Though you may feel like the bottom has dropped out, all is not lost. 'Selah' means to PAUSE and think deeply. As you encounter this SELAH moment in your life today, take a moment to pray and watch this encouraging message.
Ever walk into your bedroom or bathroom and scream? Looking around in disbelief at all the STUFF that has accumulated in your space, it can leave you both confused and frustrated. Naturally I’m Spring cleaning, just like many of you and the amount of stuff I have in my home from winter, is downright frightening!! I don’t know where all this stuff came from but more importantly....HOW do I get rid of it?
Don’t panic. It’s naturally to feel like decluttering will be a long and boring process, but it really doesn’t have to be. I have found some quick and EFFECTIVE ways to declutter and see my floors again.🙈. I’m exited to share these strategies with you today. Watch this quick video to get you started on your journey to becoming more ORGANIZED!!! Step by step action plans can be found in my new Book “My Organized Life”-available now on Amazon.com grab your copy this weekend.
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I’m super excited about Spring!!! I live on the East coast where it’s always super cold and snowy. Although I love snow, it’s kind of hard to build in it. So the new season (even though it still snows here in spring 😳) brings with it the new opportunities to Build. I’m a D.I.Y. Girl at heart, so almost every weekend, I’m at my local Home Depot and craft store-putting my creativity to WORK.
As much as I enjoy building and creating things for my home, I also enjoy building things for God to use. It’s messy, I make mistakes, I fail often but guess what? It’s all a part of the process. Stay authentic to your process when your building! I’ll share the “HOW” in this video, click it!
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I bet you think God wants 545 things from you today! I used to think that God always wanted SO much from me, so I would run from that pressure🤦🏽♀️. I had no idea, until I gave my heart to God, that the main thing He wanted from me was very simple-a connection!
Yes, God always wants to be CONNECTED to you! The scriptures tell us that God will always be with us, so that means we are the ones who disconnect from God. Life happens and when it does, we become distracted and distant from God. I’ve been there and if you are there NOW, I’ve got a great way for you to reconnect with God today. Watch this video!
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It’s the moment where you want to find a body sized hole and crawl in it. You failed! Yup, somehow someway you blew it and you feel completely horrible about it. If it’s a public failure, there’s a hint of embarrassment attached to it and that makes it sting even worse. Listen!!!! We all fail.
Even when I am doing my best at something, working hard, being consistent etc...there’s still room for failure. I used to SIT in my failures and wait until the pain or embarrassment resisted, but praise be to God for revelation!! You don’t have to STAY down because you got knocked down. God is the God of the COMEBACKS ‼️‼️‼️‼️
Its time for you to come back and I can’t wait to show you HOW to do it. Check this video and suit up for the biggest comeback you’ll ever make.
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At some point in life, you mature and start to reflect on your life. You question WHY you make the choices you do or why you love the person your with. the answer to fulfillment in life comes from finding your God given purpose!! purpose may be a lot easier to discover than you think. Purpose is what drives us, what focuses us and ultimately determines our success in life. Need help discovering your purpose? grab a snack and watch this video I did LIVE about how I found my PURPOSE!
Elder Kay Starks
Scribe. Prophetess. Wife. Mother. Entrepreneur and Friend! I am completely in LOVE with God and using all the Gifts He has graciously given me, to serve the world.